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Bishop’s Note: February 16, 2017 – Speak the Truth in Love

Last Sunday, in 1 Corinthians 3:1-10, St. Paul modeled a leadership quality that really jumped out at me: The Ability to Speak the Truth in Love and

But I, brothers, I could not address you as spiritual people, but as people of the flesh, as infants in Christ. 
2 I fed you with milk, not solid food, for you were not ready for it. And even now you are not yet ready, 3 for you are still of the flesh. For while there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not of the flesh and behaving only in a human way? 4 For when one says, “I follow Paul,” and another, “I follow Apollos,” are you not being merely human?

Well, Paul has a way of speaking directly to the people… “I fed you with milk, not solid food, for you were not ready for it. And even now you are not yet ready, for you are still of the flesh.”

Paul was telling them that a mature faith isn’t necessarily bound to chronological progression. Paul had been gone for three years from Corinth, and he’s saying, “Look, when I was there and you were brand new Christians I had to feed you the Milk of
faith, because you were not mature enough to handle the meat of faith. Now, three years later, though you consider yourselves quite grown up I still have to feed you Milk. Just look at your actions – you are not mature,  you are still of the FLESH.” How did Paul know they were living in the Flesh? Because there was jealousy, division, and strife in their midst.

The leadership principle that Paul is demonstrating here is that of Speaking the Truth in Love! So often, leaders in the church fail to lead. They will tell people what they want to hear, rather than what they need to hear; the desire to be liked is so strong. As a result, we don’t tell people the truth for fear of offending or being disliked.  For example, perhaps a friend is going through a rough patch in her marriage. You note that she starts flirting a great deal with a mutual friend. You know she’s trying to compensate for the troubles in her marriage, but you also know that the man she’s flirting with does not know that – or really care. Does the Christian Leader point out her behavior and warn her of temptation and the evil that can potentially result if she carries on with her flirtatious attitude? Or do we wait – hope and pray – that she won’t cross over from flirtation to action?

St. Paul is clear to say: we speak the truth. This does not mean that we are rude or heartless, but as Paul writes to the Ephesians: “Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ” (Ephesians 4:15)

As we go through transitions in our churches – either the normal transitions of time, or the ones that have been forced upon us through misfortune – the temptation to act out, feel slighted, take offense, or offend, can be very great. I pray that we will love one another enough to take St. Paul’s cue and speak the truth in love.

The Lord bless you all this week!
Bishop Menees

Calendar
 
February 16
Deadline for Registration for Vestry/Bishop's Committee Retreat on March 3-5
February 18
Diocesan Council and Standing Committee Goal-Setting/Visioning Retreat
February 19
Bishop @ St. Anselm's - Elk Grove
February 20
Diocesan Office Closed - President's Day
February 23
ADSJ Task Force Meeting
February 24-26
Winter Youth Retreat
February 26
Bishop @ Christ Church - Lemoore
March 1
Deadline for ACNA Parochial Reports (This is the date they auto submit)
March 1
Ash Wednesday (Bp. Menees @ St. James' - Lindsay)
March 3-5
Vestry/Bishop's Committee Retreat Option 2
March 11
Bp. Menees @ Little Brothers and Sisters of Sacrifice Quiet Day
March 12
Bp. Menees @ St. John's - Porterville
March 14 
Rural Dean's Meeting
March 18
Diocesan Council Meeting
San Joaquin Anglican
Bishop's Call to Prayer
Thirty-nine Articles of Religion
XIV. Of Works of Supererogation

Voluntary Works besides, over and above, God's Commandments, which they call Works of Supererogation, cannot be taught without arrogancy and impiety: for by them men do declare, that they do not only render unto God as much as they are bound to do, but that they do more for his sake, than of bounden duty is required: whereas Christ saith plainly When ye have done all that are commanded to you, say, We are unprofitable servants.

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