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Has making love become ho hum? Let's put passion back into our marriages! Plus all the best marriage posts from the past month!
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June Marriage Toolkit:

Make Sex Feel Amazing Again

Has making love become blah in your marriage? Ever wonder what all the fuss is about? 

Feel like you need some help to ramp up the passion, but you don't know where to start? With Father's Day just around the corner, maybe the best thing you can give your husband is an excitement for sex. And so this month I thought I'd share some posts on how to make sex feel so good that you look forward to it--and maybe even want to jump him!

Note: For the 30% of women who are in marriages where YOU have the higher sex drive than your husband, scroll below for some other posts that may be more relevant. 
Make Sex Feel Great--For HER!

It's usually not too hard to make sex feel good for a guy. But what about for YOU? 

Try these 9 tips today!

 
How to Be More Adventurous in Bed

Maybe sex feels pretty good--but it's simply become boring. 

You'd like to spice things up, but you're not sure how. And you certainly don't want to be gross!

Here are 10 tips to become sexually confident in your marriage.

 

Reaching the Big "O"

In my research for The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex, I found that about 36% of women rarely, if ever, reached orgasm during intercourse.

If that's you, don't despair! There's nothing wrong with you. You just may need to learn a few tips to help you relax and get the angle right. 

Try these!

Make Foreplay Awesome--for Both of You!

Foreplay isn't optional. It's essential for you to feel good! And it doesn't have to just be for you, either. Do it right, and you'll both enjoy it and it won't seem like a chore.

Read 6 tips to make foreplay more exciting!

Want Something Unique for Father's Day?
A Unique--And Sensual Father's Day Gift!

The MELT video courses are awesome! And just in time for Father's Day they come with free "Hide 'n Seek" Printables you can hide around the house to build the suspense.

Over 17,500 couples have learned how to give amazing sensual massages from Melt--and you can too. Just watch one short video a night, until you've learned how to give a complete, perfect 30-minute back rub. You'll learn the right techniques, where and how to give the backrub, and tips to make it even more sensual (without being X-rated!)

And just for Father's Day--you'll get the foot rub course absolutely free!

A 60-day money back guarantee, lifetime access to the videos--and you'll both be saying "Ahhhh". 

Try it today!
What if You're the One with the Higher Libido?

If the problem for you is not that sex doesn't feel good, but instead it's that your husband doesn't want it, these two posts may help:
When Your Husband Doesn't Want to Make Love

A 4-part series that helps you get to the root of the problem (and figure out if it's something that needs to be addressed, or something you just need to live with), how to communicate with your husband about your needs, and how to experience real intimacy again.

Don't give up hope.

 
My Husband Won't Initiate Sex

Does your husband say he wants to have sex--but he'll never initiate? Do you doubt if he's even interested?

This post was written for you!

 
You Can Help Me!

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New on the Blog --Don't Miss These  Posts!

You CAN Survive the Dreaded Pap!

Do you absolutely hate Pap smears? Most of us do.

And so I asked my readers for great tips to make Pap smears more comfortable, and they came up with some I never even knew before!

And the last one--it's hilarious.


 
Why Keith and I Don't Drive Together--And That's Okay

Last month I opened up and showed you all one part of my marriage where we still struggle. I thought it was just a cute post, but over the last few weeks THIS is the one that people talk to me about in person.


So I think you had better read it! And it's funny, too.
When the Typical Marriage Advice Doesn't Work

Too often the things that we're told to do when marriage is hard is exactly the WRONG thing to do.

Sometimes being nice is not the same thing as being good or godly.

And sometimes we need different advice!



 
My Patrons Are Going to Hear a Podcast with Keith and Me this Weekend!

If you enjoy my marriage posts, and want to see more "behind-the-scenes" stuff, like podcasts with me and my husband, chat sessions with me, weekly emails about what I'm thinking and what I'm reading, plus FREE ebooks and audio downloads...

...you can do that for as little as $5 a month!

Find out more here. 


 

Reader Questions

My most popular posts are often when readers write in with questions, and I answer them. Here are three from last month!

What Do I Do if My Husband Won't Work?

Your husband won't get a job--or maybe won't keep a job. 

He doesn't seem motivated, and you feel stuck. What do you do?

Two women wrote in with this problem. Read my answer here.

Do I Have to Indulge My Husband's Sex Fantasies?

Two women with similar questions: Their husbands want them to do stuff that they think is gross. 

Do they have to?

I have a very strong answer to them--but also a warning.
 

 
If I've Been Faking It, Should I Tell Him?

Maybe you've been fantasizing about other guys. Or maybe you've been faking the big "O".

Either way, he's thinking he's satisfying you, when really he's not.

Do you tell him?

 
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Speaking of how to make sex feel great, you HAVE to watch this hilarious video!
How Men and Women Experience Touch Differently

This is amazing! Watch it with your husband--especially the part beginning at 2:23!

I hope these ideas help you grow your marriage!


Blessings on you both,

Sheila Wray Gregoire,
Blogger at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, and author of The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex and 31 Days to Great Sex.
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